Hexagram 6： Conflict
The Meaning of Hexagram 6
Conflict, in the I Ching, advises disengaging from conflicts rather than pondering their causes. It advocates resolving conflicts through open communication, compromise, and patience. This hexagram highlights avoiding dwelling on why and trusting higher guidance for resolution. It identifies internal conflict as the root of disputes, emphasising emotional detachment and faith for resolution.
Changing Lines in Hexagram 6
Changes in Line 1
Conflict may have gone too far. When success over others is achieved through sheer force of authority or superior position, the victory will not last. Those who can win only by the sword are condemned to carry shields with them everywhere. Beware of hollow victories.
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In disputes where you know you are in the right, look for a just mediator who can bring influence to bear on the other side. This person must be strong and above reproach, so that he or she has both moral authority and personal clout. In such situations, it behooves you to just let go and let this arbiter take over. If you have satisfied your own conscience that your cause is just, chances are that you will convince others of good conscience as well. And remember, not every field is a battleground; many conflicts resolve themselves.
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Winning isn’t everything. In situations where you face a weaker opponent, winning is not even always the strategic thing, particularly if you are not totally sure of the objectivity of your position. Remember that all conflict, no matter how much the odds may favor you, carries a price whether you win or not. Learn to demonstrate goodwill when you hold the upper hand, and you will find that in the long run, your position will be strengthened.
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People with big personalities can generate conflict by attempting to acquire more—more credit for accomplishments, more material possessions—than is really their due. Don’t let yourself be like this! Learn to live within your means and to value most dearly those things that cannot be taken away. You can avoid much conflict by working solely to produce good results and to receive fair compensation for your efforts. Let the prestige and flashy objects go to others.
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When challenging a superior force, retreat is a good tactic, not a disgrace. In the face of insurmountable obstacles, misplaced valor—perhaps fueled by a sense of personal pride—is not only a mistake, it’s also dangerous to those around you: your allies, your friends and your community. If an adversary with a loaded rifle has you in their sights, it furthers you to duck.
Changes in Line 6
Disputes and a dangerously charged atmosphere seem likely, but the storm will blow over if you remain careful. Do not force things; avoid fighting. There still may be a simple solution at hand since it is possible that a minor misunderstanding is at the root of the present conflict. If you face an adversary who is much stronger than you, drop the dispute quickly. If you are engaging an equal, seek allies.
